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Positively Weightless

A healthy life not only means physically healthy, but mentally as well. Healthy eating, healthy exercising habits, and a positive attitude are all important and help maintain balance in life. I decided to combine my love of writing and my positivity to change the world in hopes that any reader can also become positively weightless, and lead them to a healthy life.

Last week I talked about how we are always evolving. To continue that discussion a bit this week how about we take a look at progress? In some ways our self-evolution and progress are one in the same. We can't really evolve if we are not making some sort of progress with our goals and our lives overall. I have spent a lot of time on this page talking about not only victories we can physically see and observe with our goals, but the not so visible ones as well. So let's dive into that a bit deeper!

I feel like I pretty much share exactly where the inspiration for most of my posts came from. This post was no different in the sense that it came to me after something that occurred during my week. On Wednesday I had a doctor's checkup. Nothing too exciting. People go to the doctors for checkups all the time. I am someone who always dreads going. At a young age I started gaining weight, so it was always a lecture at every checkup I went to about the need to lose weight and get healthier. So I was extremely pleased with how my checkup went. My blood pressure according to the nurse was almost perfect. They were incredibly pleased to hear about all the exercising I am doing now. We talked about my diet a bit, but instead of a lecture it was a pleasant conversation where I was open about what I know I am doing right and where I know I still need work. She was happy my weight was down from the previous checkup and although I mentioned I wished it was even lower, she said as long as it continues in the right direction she was happy. Overall it was just a very pleasant visit and the results were pleasing as well.

So why do I bring this up? Well let me backtrack just a bit. I was extremely nervous to go to my checkup. I knew my weight was down, but I still have a good distance to go. I assumed my blood pressure was in a much better place because I have focused so much on exercise, but I still am a bigger girl and the two usually go hand in hand. My appointment only solidified that all of my hard work over the past year or so is absolutely paying off. I have been a bit frustrated that the number on the scale isn't budging much, but the results of my physical were very encouraging. I talk about non-scale victories a lot, but to me hearing the doctor tell me to keep up the good work was the biggest one. I am very encouraging to myself, yes, but it truly does help when someone else encourages you as well. I have truly been making progress and some progress as long as it in the in right direction is better than none!

What about other aspects of or lives? Well, the same goes for all of that as well. Maybe you are a writer like me and you have a work in progress that you can only slowly chip away at because it isn't your full-time job. I have been posting on this page and only recently started gaining followers and views. Maybe you are reading a new book but can only read a little bit each week because of your schedule. What about the gym? I know I have mentioned before that when I first started weight training I could not do a back squat with the 45 lbs bar on my back. Just yesterday I did back squats with a total of 165 lbs on my back, but I slowly worked up to that. Sure a lot of things in our lives cannot be done overnight and require time. The most important thing to remember is that if you continue to move forward, you are still making progress.

Live your life looking ahead. As I mentioned before, yes I would like my weight reflected on the scale to be a smaller number, but I now know my hard work is showing directly in my health. The important part is keeping that progress going. Sure I would love to be reading more of Milton's Paradise Lost right now but my schedule has just been so busy with Halloween coming up. I read it when I have spare time, and that is also progress. Life gets in the way of so many things sometimes. A lot of the time our progress comes to a stand still because of a big event that deters our focus. The most important thing to remember, of course, is to keep going as soon as you can. Just as my doctor said about my weight, as long as your progress continues to go in the right direction, you are all set!
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I think it is safe to say that we as humans are always changing. Take a second and think about the person you were five years ago. I can say I am a completely different person from then in the best ways. I am guessing you can say the same. Since we are always changing, that gives us plenty of opportunity to change for the better. Maybe we have a bad habit we would like to break. Maybe we have new better habits we would like to form. There are plenty of small changes we can make to improve ourselves in the future.

Let's start small here. What is one small thing about your life you would like to improve? I can give the perfect example from my life. A few years ago after it was recommended to me, I decided to purchase a book to help me improve my handwriting. I wish I had a picture I could put up of my book but I have unfortunately misplaced it since. My handwriting now, although it is by no means perfect, is so much nicer and legible now. At work I am usually responsible for addressing letters and have even been asked to fill out envelopes for personal mail going out because my handwriting is so nice and neat. If you are interested in the same book you can purchase it here. Although small, making this little change helped me improve myself. I am sure there are plenty of ways you can improve yourself. 

Another pretty big way we can change is the way we handle stress. If any of you reading this knew me as a teenager you would know I was someone who did not handle stress well at all. I used to just let it fester in my mind sometimes to the point where it would make me sick to my stomach.Thankfully I got past that. I now deal with stress a lot better than I ever did back then. This past week at work was a pretty big test of that. I decided to take Monday off so as expected Tuesday was a very long day. I had a lot of catching up to do, ended up staying a half out late, and was even sent the wrong type of computer to replace my current one. With a little help from my bosses, I was able to get through that. The work got done, and when I left work I also left any stress it was causing me behind. If stress is an issue for you, there are plenty of ways to get past it. Meditation, exercise, yoga, really anything to get your mind distracted and put a little more at ease.

I mentioned habits at the beginning of this post, and I think those are probably the biggest area of change in our lives. If we have bad habits, we need to break them and sometimes replace them with better ones. I used to bite my nails constantly. That was a pretty gross bad habit to be in, and one day I just decided it needed to stop so I did. Making poor food choices is also a pretty bad habit I think a lot of us deal with. Although I have improved my eating habits immensely through the years I am still not perfect. I still have quite the sweet tooth, and I love to snack. I try to combat this by making healthier snack options available to me and to cut back on sugar where I can. If I tried to eliminate these things all together, it would only set me up to fail even harder. Another great way to help with that is exercise. I know I typically make better food choices when I work out because I don't want to ruin the progress I made at the gym. Sure sometimes that goes the opposite way, and I indulge because I know I burned calories from my workout, but overall it tends to help. Try and break the cycle of your bad habits with new and good habits.

Overall we are constantly evolving throughout our entire lives. I only mentioned some of the ways that are more prominent in my life, but there are so many more. I want to encourage you to sit and think about the changes you've made in your life. Think about how far you have come. Think about the people in your life and the changes that have come for them as well. If you are truly making positive changes, most aspects of your life are going to improve from those seemingly small changes. If you change your bad habits into healthier ones you are pretty likely adding years onto your life. If you are dealing with stress better than you did in the past you are probably ensuring more efficiency in your life in the future as well. Even such a small act of improving my handwriting helped me have a little more confidence in my work. All of these small changes mold us into whom we are truly meant to be. Embrace the evolution of you.
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Words are quite literally a part of every single person's daily life. From reading nutrition labels on our food to sending emails at work to just verbally using words when we converse with the people around us. I think it is safe to say that words are always around us. Without written words I would obviously not be able to post in this blog every week to share my thoughts with whoever in the world may stumble across this page. Without words we would never be able to fully explain to people how much we love them or we wouldn't be able to express our frustrations to one another. There are both incredibly positive ways we use words, but some negative as well, and I think it is important to truly understand that.

The inspiration for this topic came from an unusually unexpected place this week. I was reading a fun article online that listed some spooky books to read in the month of October. As anyone who is close to me knows I am not all that into scary stories. October is usually the exception and I usually have a little fun and read something a little more on the spooky side. Well with this list the description of a book including a particular short story came up. So many people described this short story as absolutely horrific. Well being oh so curious by these sorts of things I was intrigued. This short story happened to be available online, so I figured I would see if those comments were exaggerated. They weren't. I almost immediately regretted starting to read it. The details were excruciatingly vivid. I only read about half of it before I had to stop but even then I had the words embedded into my brain. When I say I was literally sick to my stomach thinking about it later on I am not even slightly exaggerating. From that experience, however, it dawned on me just how powerful words can be. Just reading a few paragraphs of details left that kind of impression on me. It is quite amazing if you truly think about it.

So what about those emotions I love to talk about so much? How do words play into those? Well many ways really as I am sure you already realize. I think writing is such a great way to cope with our emotions. Write a short story where the characters are based on the events in your life potentially causing you grief. Writing in a diary/journal is a great way to let feelings out. Poetry is an amazing option as well. Not all poems have to be about love and happiness. As long as true feelings and emotions are put into your work it is going to shine. If you are writing in order to simply express your emotions, it doesn't matter how good it is either. Years ago I started a short story based on someone who hurt me at the time. It made me feel a lot better to let my feelings that way rather than bottling it up. I had no intentions (and still don't) of ever doing anything with that story, but it helped me deal with those feelings. In some ways I use this page to express my feelings with the world as well. Unless you absolutely hate writing with a passion, I would say to give that a try. 

"Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic. Capable of both infliction injury, and remedying it." -J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

We all know I love a Harry Potter quote and will find any opportunity to use one. I felt this one was incredibly fitting for my last section of today's post, though. I know we are taught as young children that words can't hurt us the way physical things can but I simply find that untrue. Yes, actions do speak a lot louder than words do (as cliché as that is) , but I also feel like words stick with us for a very long time. A physical wound heals a lot faster than the memory of truly rude words that were said to you. Just as J.K. Rowling states (or should I say she had Albus Dumbledore state?) words are truly powerful and can both heal and create wounds in us. With that all being said I want to remind you all to always do your best to stay kind. Remember that we can also leave emotional scars on the ones around us simply based on a few words we say to them. You never know what someone is struggling with behind closed doors so always remember to use you words in a positive way rather than a negative one.

I get it. Words are probably a lot more prominent in my life than to someone else. I love writing, and it truly is my passion to not only keep up with the blog but write for myself on the side too. This past year especially I have expanded my writing, and I hope to keep doing that as time goes on too. Not everyone can have the love of words and the written language that I can, but we can be mindful of the ones we use. As I have said throughout this entire post, words are incredibly powerful. From creating absolutely grotesque images in our minds, to helping us cope with a strong emotion, to possibly hurting someone's feelings for a long time. These same words can also create beautifully vivid pictures in our minds, immortalize our loved ones in verse or prose, or even help undo the hurt of other words. Always remember the power that words can hold, despite not being able to physically touch us.
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Don't let the title fool you. I did not bring you here to explain to you the big secret to make your life run smoothly all the time. I don't have and tips and tricks to truly live a perfect life. The truth is we all know the perfection is just a dream. You can practice as much as you want but it is basically impossible to prevent things from going wrong fully in your life. Sure you can take actions to plan out your life and your future but you never know when your car will break down or you get sick preventing you from working for a few weeks. Life is full of unexpected twists and turns around every corner. What is important to remember in my opinion is that your life is going exactly as it should be.

I was randomly thinking about pain the other day. That sounds a little morbid so let me explain. I was more specifically thinking about why our bodies feel physical pain. If something is going wrong with our body, for example, you cut yourself chopping vegetables, pain is your body's emergency alert system. I can think of a few different times that I had dental work done, was still numb from the novocain and unknowingly bit my tongue or inside of my cheek. That emergency alert system was down and the result was a big sore in my mouth for a few days. Although pain is something none of us like to feel it in a sense is essential to life. Our bodies are created/made to function exactly as they need to for us to keep on living with a few exceptions of course. I would say emotional pain is similar to. We learn from those emotions and grow.

If you are in a tough spot or just overall unhappy right now what if I told you that was happening for a reason. Trust me I know when you are going through a traumatic event the last piece of advice you want to hear is "everything happens for a reason!" I am a firm believe in that as I have said on multiple occasions before, but when you are overly emotional those words typically lead to anger. Our lives are shaped in a specific way and usually those experiences lead to better things. It is our strength (as I mentioned last week) that helps us see that through. Take the example I use time and time again in my posts. When I lost my job years ago I was angry and scared. Now because of that I am working a much better job I genuinely love, I am able to afford personal training sessions, I am on the road to finally having my own place in the Spring, along with so many future plans I never dreamed I would be making. One huge stab of emotional pain led me to so much happiness.

So what am I yapping about in my post here you may be wondering? Have you ever considered that your life is going perfectly from start to finish? Sure when you lose your job like I did or you have a huge unexpected expense pop up your life feels far from perfect but don't those experiences mold us into whom we are in this very moment? I have always said I am a pretty firm believe in fate. That our lives are mapped out from the moment we are born, but I also believe we have the power to change that. On the map our path is planned out on there is one solid line from start to finish but then many other lines that can create a brand-new path. Whatever you believe as far as fate goes I think it is safe to say we are right here in this moment together. You life is going exactly as it is meant to right now.

No perfection is not possible, unfortunately. As I have said before, think of how boring life would be if everything always went exactly right all the time. I always recall the family vacation we took when I was a kid and our car broke down at a rest stop on the way home. Of course that was not fun in the slightest back then. We were at that rest stop for hours, but it's a memory I remember pretty clearly. If plans always went perfectly, we wouldn't have stories like that to tell about times that weren't so funny when they happened but we remember with a smile now. The best thing to remember is you got through them. You were impacted by them. You are living the perfect life because it's the life you were meant to have. Your life is perfectly imperfect.


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