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Positively Weightless

A healthy life not only means physically healthy, but mentally as well. Healthy eating, healthy exercising habits, and a positive attitude are all important and help maintain balance in life. I decided to combine my love of writing and my positivity to change the world in hopes that any reader can also become positively weightless, and lead them to a healthy life.


Exercise is no new topic for this blog. I have talked about it in plenty of posts through the years, but I feel it is a topic that should be brought up frequently. In my personal opinion I think exercise is not talked about enough. As a kid/teenager I hardly ever got any exercise because I was clumsy and unathletic. I thought that meant that I had no chance of being active. I feel that many people feel that way. Based on people I know I think most people fall in between two categories: very athletic/always active, and those who hardly ever do anything active. That is a huge problem. Everyone can benefit from getting up and moving more often!

I have been working out with a personal trainer at my gym for over a year now. I know I mention it quite a bit ,and I bet some of you are sick of hearing about it, but I wanted to mention it again at the beginning of this post. Not only has working with a trainer helped keep me consistent with my gym schedule, but it has also introduced me to so many new exercises and equipment at the gym that I am so incredibly confident there now. Over the course of the last two years I went from someone who literally never exercised to somebody that goes to the gym five days a week and even has active rest days in between. I highly suggest it if you have the funds to pay for it! Motivation is key to getting into the gym and starting a routine. Unfortunately for most of us, motivation only lasts so long. You need to get yourself into a routine, so it becomes second nature.

To go off of that a bit more I am going to say that consistency is key when it comes to exercise especially if you are not someone who is naturally athletic. Going to the gym was an absolute chore for me. I had to force myself to go for only two days a week. I can honestly say that most days I look forward to going now. I am human though so some days still feel like a chore. That is when motivation is lacking, and it is up to me to let self discipline come into play. The more you force yourself to keep up the habit, the better chance you are giving it to stick. I honestly could say that that in the past if I had an extremely stressful day at work I would have used that as an excuse to go right home. Now even if I am stressed, I still make sure I go(most of the time at least), have a great workout, and every single time those endorphins help me feel so much better.

So what if you are like I was and just hate being active? It is a huge change to going from sitting most of your day (especially if you have a desk job like myself) to working out five days a week. If you've been following my journey, you'll know I did it gradually. I want to offer some tips: The first is going to be to start small(ish). Start with three days a week or even two. Go for a walk or workout with an exercise video you find on YouTube. I am going to suggest not jumping right in and getting a gym membership. Once you get used to home workouts then move on to the gym where you can extend your abilities and have more machines and materials to use. Find something you enjoy doing and doesn't seem as much of a chore. I had stuck with the elliptical for quite a while before I moved onto other cardio machines and well before I started working with the trainer! Next, do not sell yourself short! I've mentioned this before, but you're probably capable of a lot more than you would expect. Recently my trainer put kettlebell deadlifts I did on one leg on our workout program. I flat out told him he was crazy, and I would never be able to do that and you know what? I did it and fairly well for my first time! He laughed when I got done and told me to not doubt myself.

The most important lesson I am trying to get across here is to get up and get moving. Look, when I first started working out I never in a million years expected I would be back squatting over 100 lbs one day. It is a process though. It took me years to get to the point I am today. You just have to start, keep showing up, and the results will definitely follow. You are not going to wake up one morning and be able to deadlift 200 lbs or even run a mile on the treadmill in under 10 minutes. It all comes with progress. There are so many reasons to get up and get moving and your body as well as your mind/emotions are surely going to thank you for it!
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I think it is safe to say that our lives thrive on relationships. No, I do not necessarily mean romantic relationships by saying that, although they do count. What I mean is all the people in our lives. I have asked you many times in past posts to sit and think about your loved ones and this post is going to be no different. Think of all the people in your life no matter how big or small of a role they play. We get through life together. Even if we are anti-social and an introvert life is all about teamwork.

Let me provide a little context here. As I have mentioned a few times before work has been pretty crazy for me lately. I am temporarily working for a third advisor which means my work load has increased. My two permanent bosses have recognized this and have been doing everything they can to help me out through this process. Instead of them just giving me work, letting it pile up, and then if it takes me a little extra time to do asking why it isn't done,  they are both being really understanding about the whole thing. They are helping me out by doing some things I normally would for them themselves or if it is work for a joint client having the other advisor's assistant help out. All of these seem small but they have really added up to take a lot off my plate. My whole point in mentioning this is to show that the three of us work very well as a team. Do they have every right to just give me the work and expect it to get done no questions asked? Yes they sure do, but they do not and never have done that. I am sure a ton of people have bosses like that. I am pretty blessed to have the teamwork with mine that I do. 

Work is a pretty good example of where teamwork comes into play but it is of course not the only one. I would say there is teamwork involved in every relationship in your life. If you are in a serious romantic relationship that is a great example of a team as well. You have to work together to make the relationship work. Now I am no expert in the category of course and I am not going to claim to be, but each side is going to have to give and take a little. Usually to make a relationship work both sides are going to have to make sacrifices at some point. If one side is the one always making sacrifices and it is all give and no take, chances are that is not the healthiest romance and it likely is not going to work out in the long run. Friendships work the same way as well. Really any relationship in your life is going to work the same way. Each party needs to be contributing equally.

Now that I have talked about some specific examples of teamwork I want to again ask you to think about the relationships in your life. Be it professional or personal, think about how you interact with all of these people that play a part in your life. Is it give and take equally? Is one side more give and less take? If the answer to the second question is yes, how can you resolve that? Life is all about working together so if one side is doing more work the tug-of-war is inevitably going to crash to one side. Ask yourself how you can keep the little cloth tied to the rope right in the middle. Are you the one that is doing more taking and less giving? If so how can you fix that? Are you giving more than the other is? Think of ways to fix this as well. Sure you can't exactly go into work and start making demands to your boss but there are certainly ways to have a discussion with them if you are overwhelmed. If a friendship or relationship is one sided go ahead and discuss with them how you can make things work a bit smoother. Sometimes the best option in that case is to cut ties too. Think of all the ways you can try to bring a bit more balance in the teams of your life.

I am so incredibly thankful for each and every person in my life no matter how big or small their role may be. I love my job so much because of the teamwork we have to get things done every week. In fact my one boss even said a few weeks back that he doesn't think of him as my boss and that he more so thinks of us as a team. I like to think I have some pretty great teamwork with my parents too. I also have some very close friends that I would say our relationships are pretty balanced and our friendships are a team effort. Sadly there have been some relationships in the past that I recognized were not in sync, tried to fix them, but in the end decided to cut ties anyways. You are not a failure for doing so. Some people just don't always belong on the same team. Even in professional sports the players get traded around between teams. Do not think of this as a flaw. Focus on all the relationships you have been able to make work in your life and keep them this way. Your current teams are the most important of them all. Stay focused on keeping the balance and they are sure to thrive!
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Let me start today's post off by saying Happy Father's Day to all of the fathers, grandfathers, and godfathers out there! I hope you all have some great plans for your dads and celebrate them! They are after all a pretty big contributing factor to your entire existence! I still wanted to stick to my weekly posting schedule here so I am writing this blog before any of the family comes over to celebrate the dads in our lives. I hope you all have some nice plans ahead as well!

Before I get into the actual real content of this post I wanted to take a moment to give my dad a little shoutout. He is always joking around with me to write about him in my blog here, so I figured I would surprise him with a little shoutout! I am so thankful to have this man in my life. I know so many are not as lucky as my sister and I am to have a father in our lives that would do anything for us. Sure we don't get along 100% of the time. We get on each other's nerves and have disagreements but what family members don't from time to time? Thank you for always being there to support us from getting no sleep before working nights just so you could come to our many chorus concerts through the years to supporting me all through college by driving me back and forth daily. You made and continue to make a lot of sacrifices for us through the years and I want you to know it does not go unnoticed. Thank you for being there for me always, I would not be the person I am today without you... and I don't just mean because I look just like you!

Now with all that being said lets get into the post here. This topic is one that has been present on my page before. I am aware of that, but there is a specific reason for that. I think it is something we need to be reminded of from time to time. I want you to think of all of the things in your life that you are grateful for. I started off this post by talking about my father because I am grateful to have him and all that he does for me in my life. That goes for the rest of my family too of course. Maybe you are not as close with your family, I am sure you have someone in your life that loves you and you are very happy to have. Maybe you have a pet that absolutely adores you. Now think of things in your life that you are grateful for. It could be the roof over your head (even if it isn't yours and you are living with someone), it could be the fact that there is food on your table every night. Maybe you absolutely love your job. The possibilities are really endless. Anything in your life that you are fortunate to have that others may not be so lucky.

Okay now that you have that list in your head think of how you would feel if it was suddenly taken from you. Money doesn't last forever, our loved ones all have to leave us at some point, circumstances and situations change all the time. Now that is pretty extreme and somewhat cryptic thinking I know, but it needed to be said to make my point. My main purpose in bringing all of this up is to remind you all (and myself) to stay humble. You never know when the tides are going to change. Just because you have a constant in your life right now doesn't mean it is going to stay that way forever. Be grateful for everything you have in your life. They all truly are blessings. Go ahead and enjoy that nice plentiful meal you are tucking into but just remember to have a slice of humble pie for dessert!

I am so grateful for my family and for many things I have in my life. I am also aware that many people are not as lucky. On Father's Day especially I think it is important to remember this. Due to many different reasons I know that there are others that are not as lucky as I am to not only have my father in my life but to have the relationship I do with him. If you are lucky enough to have these types of relationships in your life just remember to cherish it since there are so many others that are not as lucky. As I said this goes for all aspects of your life. The world is always spinning and with that comes change. Just as the seasons are constantly changing so are we. We never know what tomorrow may bring so just remember to appreciate life for as it is today when you still can!
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Last night I went as a guest to a wedding with one of my best friends. One of my very favorite parts about going to a wedding? Well I am sure many of you can guess that it is getting all dressed up and dolling myself up. I love wearing makeup and I especially love putting it on for a special occasion. When I do my makeup for work I keep towards a more natural look, but for parties or occasions I love to break out my dark red lipsticks and glittery metallic eyeshadows. That got me thinking a bit about what to talk about this week. I wanted to talk about beauty. Different aspects of beauty and which is the most important.

Now I want to give credit where it is due. I first started pondering this topic for today's post when I read this past Friday's post on fellow blog The Haiku Imagist. He wrote a lovely poem about a peacock and then talked a bit about inner beauty on this post. I have given this page a shoutout before, but if you missed that you can check out Friday's post here, and I highly recommend you check out his other work as well. This post about inner beauty really made me think. Sure I love to dress up and I love buying and trying out new makeup, but I truly believe inner beauty is so much more important. Much like a beautiful red apple can be rotten on the inside, people can too.

So let's talk about the whole makeup thing for a moment here. I am sure some people would think that I wear too much makeup. Every morning I do the whole routine: Foundation, concealer, brows, eyes, contour, blush, highlighter. I personally do this just because I love it. There was a time in my life, however, that I wore makeup because I felt I had to. I have mentioned numerous times how bad my skin was out of college and I felt the need to cover up those "flaws." I always felt I looked different or bad when I didn't put makeup of any kind on. I honestly used to put it on even if I was just running an errand. I am so happy I finally overcame that. I now only wear it because I love it. Sure it does feel nice when I get complements on the look I create, but I no longer feel I need to wear it constantly. I never wear it at the gym (remove your makeup at the gym its so much healthier for you skin), and I usually let it rest on the weekends unless I have a function to go to where I want to wear it. Just running to target? Nope, I leave it off.

Inner beauty is so much more important overall. I know not everyone will fully agree on this. In my opinion though the type of people that are more concerned with your outer beauty over your inner beauty are going to be toxic people in your life anyways. No amount of foundation or pretty clothes can cover up an ugly personality. I want you to take a moment and consider your inner beauty. Are you more concerned with your outside appearance so much so that your soul is lacking? How do you treat others? Would others consider you to have a beautiful soul? It all comes down to how we treat others. I hope when facing a decision between inner and outer beauty that you always pick to be beautiful on the inside. Luckily though we don't have to choose. Go ahead and put as much or as little makeup on your face as you please, but when you do make sure you are smiling and making others smile as well. You can spend hundreds of dollars on makeup and fancy skincare, but you can't spend any amount of money to change your soul. That is completely on you to make sure it is beautiful.

Overall I just want you all to remember that beauty is in fact not skin deep. Sure cosmetic beauty is, but there are many ways we can be a beautiful person on the inside as well. Make sure you are looking to have truly beautiful people on the inside in your life always. When looking for a friend or really any kind of relationship it is important to remember this. Get to know a person's heart and soul before you truly make judgements on them. If they have a good heart, that means they have a beautiful soul. Do your best to have a beautiful soul as well. I know when I put my makeup on every morning before work that I do it just for me. I do not do it to please anyone else. I know that I do my best to be a good person, and that is what makes anyone truly beautiful.
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It has been quite a while since I have done any kind of review on my page. To this day my most successful post on this page to date was the review I did on the Oola tea welcome subscription box. It continues to get weekly reviews and I think that is amazing! This past long weekend my mom and I went to a Barnes and Noble and I found this cute little self-care book on one of the display tables. I flipped through it and it seemed like a nice little book to review for my page. I have written posts regarding self-care in the past, so I thought it would be a perfect fit. 

Little Acts of Self Care by Rebecca Dickinson is a short and sweet book about self-care as clearly stated by the title. To be quite honest the actual cover of the book caught my attention being such a pretty color. It was on a table with books by the same author on similar topics all with colorful covers just as this one. The book is broken up into segments of self-care, the three main being the mind, body, and spirit. There is an introduction in the beginning of course, but then the book sections off into those main areas of self-care. As far as organization I think this book is really well put together. The beginning describes a little about self-care in general and then continues on to each of those three branches. The book is very easy to read and absorb because of this. I finished it in a matter of days. So overall the book is put together and organized nicely. 

As far as the content goes I think you get exactly what is to be expected. This is more so a handbook of sorts rather than a fully detailed book on self-care. Each section had the previously mentioned small branches of self-care and then provided basic examples of how to practice these in your everyday life to add self-care into your routine. As you can see in the picture here I wanted to provide one example of how the book is set up. I chose this one for obvious reasons. You all know just how much I preach about drinking enough water, so to see this in the book was nice. Each example is set up in a similar way. There is some reasoning behind why each act mentioned is important and then some bullet points of little tips and tricks for the reader to incorporate these in their life more. That is pretty much the book in a nutshell.

This is a book review so I want to go over my thoughts on the book of course. Overall this is a nice little book to look through. I don't necessarily think you need to spend the money to own it though. To be quite honest I thought a lot of the book was similar to many things I have said on my blog in previous posts before. That isn't a bad thing of course. Anything that mentions loving yourself more and taking care of yourself more is okay with me. I do think it was exactly what I expected though instead of including anything to wow me. Just a short and sweet book with some tips and tricks mentioned. If you are looking for something more in depth than that, however, I would recommend you look for a longer and more detailed book. It did make me smile though when it mentioned diffusing essential oils in one section since I was doing just that as I was reading. If you are looking for a nice and relaxing blend to diffuse while you read: 3 drops each of lavender, frankincense, and bergamot (pictured). Just a little tip from me!

I would recommend this book to someone that is newly starting out in their self-love and self-care journey. There are a ton of little ways to demonstrate self-care in this book such as exercise, gardening, eating right, and many more. Somebody that may be struggling with how to start a self-care routine and practice would get a lot of use from this book. If you already do a lot of things to help yourself feel good and love yourself a little more, then you can probably skip this one. For the future I would love to hear any book recommendations from any of you! Any book about positivity, self-love, self-care, healthy lifestyles (etc.) are all are welcomed. Anything you might want to see reviewed in the future would be amazing and I will do my best to make it happen! Until then thank you for checking this post out, and make sure you are taking care of and loving yourself every single day!
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